Monday, April 4, 2011
But Mommy...
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
How The Lottery Changed My Life...
tattoos. My husband is officially branded. This was completely his idea. I have a feeling this is not the last tattoo. We (I) do have the rule that he cannot get a tattoo that he cannot cover up. this one, under his watch. This is his 3rd tattoo. I am not a fan of tattoos, but I still love him....tats and all.
*** I am not sure if everyone in the family has noticed this tattoo or not. I received permission to post this. ***
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Baxter's Big Adventure = A Stressful Night for the Ellis Family
Monday, March 21, 2011
Birthday Wrap Up
Trenton practicing on his tricycle.


My so cute outfit my sister gave me...
My favorite...cookie cake!
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
HAPPY BIRTHDAY WES
I am sorry you didn't get a huge party, but I am hopeful you will enjoy your golf weekend with NO wife interruptions! :)
We love you! Happy 30th,
Sara, Trenton, Baxter, and Bandit.
PS, talk to Bandit...I had to chase him around the house this morning to get him to go outside...that is your dog. :)
Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Commitment
What brings this all about is the fact that I am leaving work and looking at changing some things in my life...my last full-time day is July 29th. I hope to stay on as a part-time employee through December, but we will see if that happens. Irregardless, I had someone ask me the other day if I really was positive I was leaving. At first I thought they meant this as a compliment, but then I got to thinking - it is easier for them if I don't leave, but I made a commitment to myself and to my husband that I would complete school and do what I love for a career, to me, that is something serious. So, yes, I am sure I am leaving. I am about to be 27 years old and it will only be harder to finish grad school the older I get, so I am leaving.
Marriage, that is a commitment. Wes and I have been through some difficult times, some times where I didn't really want to see him at all, but you make it because ( I love him) that is a commitment I made, it is a promise I made to my husband. Recently, I have seen the effects of what happens when one person in a marriage had a very skewed and misrepresented definition of commitment. It isn't fair. Should I really have to get my husband to define what commitment means to him? Is it really something where you just decide you want to try something new and do it? No, it is a forever thing - marriage is not easy, but there are very few circumstances for which I would throw in the towel.
The other side of commitment regards policy. I have encountered 3 different instances with 3 different organizations who seem to think that the world is full of gray. I understand there are times to be black and white when it comes to policy and procedure, but I get frustrated with the gray becomes the norm. So what if you are on the Board, your child should be held just as accountable as any child. So what if you think you are entitled because you can drop a name, I really don't care. I guess I am just not jaded enough yet. I see rules and policy as just that. If the rule states something and my child or myself breaks it, then we are to receive the same punishment as any other person. I guess I just don't understand what the exception to the rule has become the rule? What happened to the commitment towards equality?
So, before I am asked to make another commitment, I think it only fair that person asking for the commitment clearly state what their definition of commitment is.
Friday, March 4, 2011
Daddy & Trenton's Morning Out
My little man is getting ready for sports. I pray that Trenton likes sports because I know his daddy wants him to and he is favoring his left hand when he throws....we will see. Looking at the account, I don't think they bought this, but he is just too precious!
Our new child, Bandit, just got back from the vet. He is between 1.5-2 years old, weighs 56lbs, and is healthy.
So, add one more boy to my life...the Ellis family is growing up.